Most of the parents around them, after having a child, do their best to create a perfect growth environment for the child, so that the child suffers less and lives better.
For example, children are not allowed to play at will, for fear of any accidents; no snacks are allowed, only organic vegetables, fruits, and milk can be eaten every day; a quarrel-free and warm family environment is created…
Try to make everything as close to perfect as possible, and artificially exclude all kinds of impurities for children, however, all of this has nothing to do with “sociality” and is out of tune with the world we live in.
Is the perfect living environment created by parents who have worked hard for their children, is it a good thing for their children?
Today, with the rapid development of industrialization, there are indeed many hidden dangers, such as: diet, fitness equipment, steps, pools, and even toys. Parents have become “frightened birds”, and they have become more cautious about everything about their children.
From the moment the child is born, parents build the safest crib for the child; when the child can crawl, the parents wrap the corners of the house with foam, and do not put any hard objects on the child’s reach within the range; when the child can walk and run, he will not leave an inch, for fear that the child will accidentally bump, and even if he walks, he must be dragged, and it will be more distressing when he falls… .
In order to prevent chemical fertilizers, harmful substances, etc. from entering the child’s body, starting from the milk powder, it is checked layer by layer. The milk, vegetables, meat, and fruits are all organic. Even the water used to make the milk powder cannot use plain water. It is to use special bottled soft water…
We do not let children play or eat casually. We must wash our hands at any time, do not allow children to roll on the ground, and even carry a small bottle of disinfectant with us. We even clean every corner with wireless electric nano mister. We think it is the strongest care for children (as described in the advertisement). Let children grow up healthy in a relatively clean environment.
But it turns out that for a child to be immune, he has to touch some dirty things.
We often see that children who are scrambling and scrambling on the playground seem to be in better health than those who are clean.
Parents should understand that this kind of excessive care will not have any protective effect on the child, but instead will cultivate the child into a “porcelain doll” that cannot withstand a little external damage.
It has to be said that this is a kind of harm to the growth of the child.